'Are you ready for a relationship?'

We toddle, we grow and so does our brain. It takes quiet a long till it attains maturity and becomes smart enough to decide between good and bad. Stays cool and take decisions patiently. 

We all are same, same mistakes, same confusions, same kinda desires – we all have similar experiences may be at dissimilar juncture. Oh yeah… SUPERMAN is an exception. 

By the time we are teen, all of us want to be in a relationship. Each one likes someone by his side to cuddle and hold hands in the park, to talk softly and whisper those magical 8 letters when you sleep, to bitch around and feel safe, to kiss when you turn lusty… All very sweet and dandy.

Love in other form increases or decreases as the wheel rotates and as the happenings are planned in your life. But love at first sight and that crazy love of teen slashes the cling so rapidly that in no time at all you are airborne.  And then, OH… CHRIST! here is the end of my endeavours and I am fucked up :-p.

Well lame jokes aside, but you are ready for a relationship only when you are responsible to all your duties and if not then you are all SCREWED UP, like an audio cassette from both the sides. 

We become stupidly mature and then like Romio we make mad choices.   

Here are some simple complicated things, some justified baseless characteristics and some erroneous accurate customs with which one has to customise oneself before involving in a relationship. Some random quirky set of laws for all jerks (including me)… :-)

•   If you are still enjoying saving money for your PSP’s and i-pods instead of saving it for mobile recharges! Then I am sorry, you are NOT READY. 
•  If you are ready to cut short your needs, may be skip food at times and save money for a candle night date or sweet teddy’s then you are a hero for a relationship. Dude, this job suits you then.
•  If you are ready to sit in library (a place where boys are least found) for long and long hours then you are prepared.
• If you are ready to cut your social contacts for your girl, become “Ranjikant” if anyone eve teases, then you are a perfect Boy Friend for most of the sexy chicks.
•  If you still obey your parents, ride bike @ speed limits specified, wish a hug from your mom instead of getting it from your girl by gifting a chocolate or bouquet :-p, then sorry dude, you have to learn a lot to get in a relationship.

These things may sound bizarre or gag but one has to do all this in a relationship of teen. Trust me when I say this. 

Maintaining a relationship for life is truly a knotty job. You may find one for the time, but it requires loads to maintain it for life. It demands a lot of homework and much of hard work is involved. 

Relationship requires lot many things like – a high-speed smart brain to make excuses, a hard and a soft heart, a level-headed and matured piece of soft tissues, highly compact with reacting veins and sagacious responding systems, sacrificing, compromising, dedicated, loyal and rebellion moral fibre, some loyal and cooperating friends. That’s it. This is a perfect recipe for a person to make ready for a relationship.

What happens that relationships don’t lasts long when we are young??

Each relation has its own excuse but the summary off all excuses proves out to be one. 

Self-identity, immaturity, lack of patience, impractical conditions, unfavourable situations, unnecessary boundations, blaming nature, excess of expectations etc. are the reasons for breakups & this is why relationships hardly last long when we are young.

Best is to part your ways when you start screwing each other’s life. 

Forcefully maintaining a relationship just leads to doomed affairs & heartbreaks…

It may also happen that you love your partner so much & vice-versa but the chemistry of your bonding may not have a perfect composition. I mean your chemistry may not match. And believe me boy, You can’t help it.  You just need to give some time & space to your relation at that hour or else “be ready to convert this mismatch chemistry into law of repulsion yeah! U got it like poles repel each-other...

Attaining much of closeness just in a short period of time & developing much of intimacy also leads to the end of relation sometimes.        

The point that I am trying to say is initially a partner feels so much love for another but as soon as he/she grows out to be physical with the partner, the intensity of love starts falling. This is not a generalised statement but it has been observed in many cases.

**Physical relation also makes a relationship deeper & stronger sometimes. 

If any problem occurs both the partners must work together towards resolving it. 

But in general what happens is that we behave like “PROSTITUTES”. Yeah, you read it right. We just then care only about our satisfaction & our profit. We become egotistical. Both the partners behave in that manner.

So before you get in a relationship analyse that you are ready or not! There are many more conditions but these are enough to judge your preparation. Put your legs in only when you become mature & sensible like sazzy… Only then you will enjoy a happy relation.

For now - Best is … stay cool, stay fresh, stay single, ride bike like superman & scooty like superhot women & let me stare you. :-p

They were some very serious issues. Phewww… I don’t know how I talked so mature! :-p

Well in randoM stances sazzy is a mature boi! :-)

Sukesh